The Love That Feels Right
Everyday i see so many people in love. Some deeply fallen & some newly infatuated. What astounds me more is the fact that everyone's definition of love is different. Some think of it as a indescribable feeling, where as some take it as a yet another random word. All my life i have seen people complaining about the fact that they cant find "the one". The one who is supposed to be with them in every sphere of life. What i believe is that finding love is the easiest part in the whole journey of 'love'. After all we all are good at finding things which are hard to get.
"Finding love is easy than sustaining it" ♡♥
The moment our brain registers our feelings for someone, it starts sending signals to our heart, which in response beats faster whenever that person comes in a nearby radius. In this process our mind and heart works simultaneously. After being sure of the fact that s/he is the one, with whom we want to spend our life.We start pursuing that person. Now when you realize your feelings for that person, it gets harder to be in there presence without getting all flushed up! No matter what that person does,you will find it cute or adorable. This is the stage where you have to decide whether you can manage these feelings or not! Whether you want that person to be a part of your happiness and sadness!!
"Falling in love doesn't hurt but the stopping does"
We always mistake the outset of a relationship as a final destination. Beginning of a relationship with someone is just a start of a beautiful journey, full of ups and downs. And from this point either your bond will flourish or it will just fade away with time.
This is when you get to know that sharing a bond is not just about holding hands or getting kissed.These are all a small essence of a relationship.The most vital part of a relationship is to respect each other for who you are. Without respect you are not going to end up anywhere . Your ship will definitely sink.
Usually, people casually get into a relationship and when things don't work out, they start repelling its mere existence. Now, you don't take it as a overwhelming feeling which used to make you all blush like fools. No its not your fault. Its human mentality to remember bad things first. As a result, you would pledge to never get into it ever again. You will again start building walls around you to protect you from the pain, which a failed love causes. We start getting away from the people, who have the potential to hurt us emotionally. We oath to never show our vulnerable side to anyone.
And why do we do all these things?
Simply because we are scared. Not scared of falling in love but scared of falling for the wrong person.
'The most beautiful thing about 'love' is that it knocks your door when you are least expecting it. Keep your protective walls as high as possible but the right person will know how to get through them. That person will make it harder for you to be scared. The right person will make you let go of all the negative feelings. They will make you love your own self. They will make you realize how precious you are! They will be able to bring out certain emotions, which were always there but were hidden.
But even after all this, if you fail to get your happy ending then remember, that love always deserves another chance.
Everyday i see so many people in love. Some deeply fallen & some newly infatuated. What astounds me more is the fact that everyone's definition of love is different. Some think of it as a indescribable feeling, where as some take it as a yet another random word. All my life i have seen people complaining about the fact that they cant find "the one". The one who is supposed to be with them in every sphere of life. What i believe is that finding love is the easiest part in the whole journey of 'love'. After all we all are good at finding things which are hard to get.
"Finding love is easy than sustaining it" ♡♥
The moment our brain registers our feelings for someone, it starts sending signals to our heart, which in response beats faster whenever that person comes in a nearby radius. In this process our mind and heart works simultaneously. After being sure of the fact that s/he is the one, with whom we want to spend our life.We start pursuing that person. Now when you realize your feelings for that person, it gets harder to be in there presence without getting all flushed up! No matter what that person does,you will find it cute or adorable. This is the stage where you have to decide whether you can manage these feelings or not! Whether you want that person to be a part of your happiness and sadness!!
"Falling in love doesn't hurt but the stopping does"
We always mistake the outset of a relationship as a final destination. Beginning of a relationship with someone is just a start of a beautiful journey, full of ups and downs. And from this point either your bond will flourish or it will just fade away with time.
This is when you get to know that sharing a bond is not just about holding hands or getting kissed.These are all a small essence of a relationship.The most vital part of a relationship is to respect each other for who you are. Without respect you are not going to end up anywhere . Your ship will definitely sink.
Usually, people casually get into a relationship and when things don't work out, they start repelling its mere existence. Now, you don't take it as a overwhelming feeling which used to make you all blush like fools. No its not your fault. Its human mentality to remember bad things first. As a result, you would pledge to never get into it ever again. You will again start building walls around you to protect you from the pain, which a failed love causes. We start getting away from the people, who have the potential to hurt us emotionally. We oath to never show our vulnerable side to anyone.
And why do we do all these things?
Simply because we are scared. Not scared of falling in love but scared of falling for the wrong person.
'The most beautiful thing about 'love' is that it knocks your door when you are least expecting it. Keep your protective walls as high as possible but the right person will know how to get through them. That person will make it harder for you to be scared. The right person will make you let go of all the negative feelings. They will make you love your own self. They will make you realize how precious you are! They will be able to bring out certain emotions, which were always there but were hidden.
But even after all this, if you fail to get your happy ending then remember, that love always deserves another chance.
Yup some clear insights on love
ReplyDeleteare you saying this out of experience?
DeleteDamn, your best work for all what i have seen !!
ReplyDeleteAmazingly written really your perception of seeing love is great...such a great perspective you have portrayed keep going my dear...keep it up..
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